I don’t have the personality to create friendships. I’m not great at zoning in on someone, seeking them out and making/creating friends.  It’s just not me.  Sure, I’m warm and friendly and I’m probably one of the better introverts who acts extroverted artists.

When I think of a “Friendship Creator” I think of a relational artist. I think of a person who is a magical conversationalist and a magnetic personality; someone who can bring friendships into existence ex nihilo by their sheer creative warmness.  Somebody who is able to process their thoughts in a conversation, and make that process enjoyable and fun for the other.

For me, my friendships always evolved. They arise out of circumstances that I don’t necessarily control, but that I’m apart of cultivating.  My greatest friendships have arisen out of the primordial ooze of shared experiences; like the fish, randomly growing legs and walking out of the ocean, most of my friendship have evolved based adaptation.

Do you create friendships or do your friendship mainly evolve?  I know it’s a little of both, but how do most of your friendships start?

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