Caleb Wilde

Caleb Wilde

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I'm a sixth generation funeral director. I have a grad degree in Missional Theology and a Certification in Thanatology.

And I like to read and write.

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Sometimes healing comes unexpectedly

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This awesome story is written by Tumblr user Annie and was originally posted on her Tumblr page.  I messaged Annie and asked if I could share her story here and she agreed.

As some of you know, my brother died last year. It was actually 8 months ago today. Anyways, when my mom and I went to Hollywood Studios yesterday, we decided to stop and take pictures with Woody and Buzz in my younger brother’s honor. We were the only people in line without little kids and got strange looks, but stayed anyway.

When it was our turn for pics, both Buzz and Woody were very fun and playful and posed for pictures. At the end, though, my mom started to tear up, followed by me tearing up. My mom quietly explained to Woody that her son had passed away in October and that he loved Woody growing up, that Toy Story was his favorite movie as a kid, and he had worn his Woody costume almost every day when he was little after he got it for Halloween.

My mom just said a quiet thank you and stepped back so that the next people in line could take a pic, but before she could get away, Woody pulled her into the tightest, sweetest hug. Buzz engulfed me in a hug, having heard what my mom said.

I’m not exaggerating that Woody hugged my mom for a solid minute as she cried on his shoulder and everyone just got quiet and let us have our moment. The cast member that had my phone took pictures and then started to tear up himself. Woody finally let go of my mom just to pull me into a tight hug and Buzz hugged my mom.

While the character actors aren’t allowed to talk, they made a kissing sound to blow us each a kiss while they hugged us and I could hear Woody sniffing through the costume.

We walked away feeling bad for taking up so much time, but the cast members just smiled and told us they were glad we could have that moment. As we walked away, Woody and Buzz waved by and blew more kisses.

My mom turned to me, with tears still streaming down her face, and said that it was the best hug she had been given by anyone since my brother had died.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is the magic of Disney.

You have a point, Mr. Hari.

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Sometimes Mausoleums Leak. Here’s an explanation why.

Mausoleums rarely leak.  There’s a number of safe-guards that keep leakage from spilling out.  But, every once in a while this happens:

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(Amanda Shavers-Davis/The Cullman Times)

There’s a number of reasons why mausoleums could leak.  Here are two of the more prevalent reasons.

One. Casket-failure.

Casket-failure is when the dead begin to putrefy, and the liquid (usually mixed with corrosive embalming fluid) emits from their bodies, the casket rusts out from the inside, causing the liquid to run out from the mausoleum.

Two.  The “exploding casket”

When sealed caskets with no ventilation experience an accumulation of gases emitted from the decomposing body the buildup of those gases sometimes becomes so intense and pressurized that the casket belches gases and liquids.  The casket doesn’t explode like a balloon; but it can — in some circumstances — expel parts of its contents.  There *should* be some type of liner that catches the casket belches … but sometimes (as in the above example) there isn’t a liner.

 

Biodegradable Pebble-shaped coffins

Pebble-shaped coffins, made from sculpted birch by artist Davina Kemble. Each Pebblewood coffin is hand crafted from Birch Ply and is fully biodegradable and equally suited for traditional or woodland burials, or cremation. They have concealed handles so they can be lowered into a grave and are fully biodegradable. They are lined with linen and come in a variety of sizes. A pebble urn is also available.

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10 Helpful Death-Related Words from Other Languages

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