This week the paperback version of my book (the less expensive hold-it-in-your-hands version) is released into the world. The cover is redesigned with a fall color scheme, and each book comes with a complementary ghost (I can’t guarantee the temperament of said ghost).

Here’s the deal, if you buy a book you can send it to me and I’ll sign it and send it back. If you want me to personalize it, include a note with instructions as to who you’d like me to sign it for (and yes, if you want to send me multiple books for Christmas presents or Halloween trick-or-treat gifts — cause what kid wouldn’t want a book instead of candy? — I’ll gladly sign multiple books).

However — and here’s the catch — you MUST include a self-addressed and stamped envelope (one that can fit a book(s))so I can return it to you. You can send it to Caleb Wilde, P.O. Box 279, Parkesburg, PA 19365. So, order the book (link at the bottom), write down my P.O. Box, and await your paperback and complementary ghost.

Click this link to purchase from Amazon:

$1.99. The $1.99 sale of my ebook ends tonight

A couple weeks ago, HarperOne lowered the price on the Kindle edition of my book to $1.99.  That sale ends tonight at midnight.

If you’ve been waiting for the right time to buy it, NOW is that time.

Click the hyperlinked photo to be redirected to the Kindle page:



Kindle Version of my Book Lowered to $1.99

$1.99. For a limited time, HarperOne lowered the cost of the Kindle edition of my book to $1.99. So, for the next couple days, instead of a Big Mac, you can buy my book. You can skip that Dairy Queen ice cream cone, or eat the Chilis chips without the guacamole, instead of your regular Venti Quad, Nonfat, One-Pump, No-Whip, Mocha, you can downgrade to a tall for a day. But, don’t skip the Waffle Fries from Chick-fil-A. Buy the Waffle Fries. Always buy the Waffle Fries.

Anyways, $1.99 for the next couple days. It’s a deal. Just click the picture to speed over to Amazon:link below.


Endorsements from Death




If you haven’t already bought my book and you want to see what Death is raving about, click HERE to buy it on Amazon.

Seven Characteristics of the Broken Open Heart

Author URL: Title: A Broken Heart Year: 2009

I write in my book,

When hardship comes, some hearts are broken apart, and like pottery or glass, those hearts are difficult to put back together.  But other hearts are broken open like a fist that opens itself to receive and give back, or like clay that adapts to pressure.  Whereas death’s wildeness can shatter the well-ordered, rigid life, it can open those who have learned to flow with the waves of life.  The broken-open heart, the heart that has been molded by pain and suffering, knows to “be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.”

One.  One of the factors that differentiate the broken open heart from the heart that’s broken apart is this: the broken-open heart doesn’t believe that brokenness is shameful.  The broken open heart starts with the assumption that it’s okay to be broken.  It’s okay to feel deeply.  It’s okay to have your life washed over by the emotions of death.  On the flip side, sometimes we respond to our brokenness from a place of shame and fear.  We fear our emotions.  We fear grief.  We fear being sad.  We fear death itself and we absolutely fear the perceived imperfections of such brokenness.  “Because anything that’s broken isn’t perfect and isn’t lovable,” we think.

Two.   The broken open heart doesn’t see emotional turmoil as an unlovable imperfection.  The idea that broken things can’t be loved is simply untrue, but the ever pervasive narrative that’s perpetuated through Hollywood and everywhere else is that only perfect things can be loved.  Somewhere deep inside the broken-open heart resides a belief, however small, that says, “perfect things are broken and we can be loved.”

Three.  Befriending death and all the brokenness, fear, and perceived imperfection that comes with it often gives us room for others’ pain.  By accepting our own pain and stripping it of shame, we’re able to accept the pain of others.  By accepting our own perceived imperfections, we can more easily accept the perceived imperfections in others.

Four.  “It uses its own pain to find love for those we don’t like.”  Simply put, the broken open heart has room for other broken things.  Everyone can see the broken imperfections of others, but the broken open heart looks past the imperfection others and does the courageous work of seeing the pain behind the brokenness.

Five.  “The broken-open heart seeks to understand.”  When we are able to befriend our own brokenness, we start to see the deep connection between pain and real-world actions, and attitudes.  In fact, many of the people we don’t like, people who are different than us, or people who think differently than we do aren’t inherently different than we are, they are just responding differently to the pain in their lives.  If we can understand a person’s pain, we can begin to understand the engine of their being.

Six.  The broken open heart is “slow to take offense and quick to forgive” because when we understand the pain behind the actions when we allow ourselves to lean into the pain, we can see that their offense is more a response to their pain than to us.  Yes, pure evil exists in the world, but even those that are evil are responding to evil done to them.  Sometimes people are just mean, but most of the time they’re just projecting their pain onto us.

Seven.  “The broken-open heart uses grace to build and bind the broken.”  When we find a path through our brokenness, we learn a very hard-earned lesson: finding wholeness doesn’t come through shame, it doesn’t come through criticism, it doesn’t come through fear of punishment (or fear in general).  Our path through brokenness is made possible by love and grace.

Most of us guard our heart and for good reason.  We’ve been hurt by the ones we have loved, by those we’ve trusted and those who we’ve given an intimate piece of our souls.  But somewhere in the midst of all that heart protection, there’s a little opening that still harbors a sense of trust, courage, and love.  As I deal with my own brokenness, and as you deal with yours, I hope you find ways to fan the embers buried deep within your heart.  I hope that we can all find a way to be broken open.

If you want to read more about my broken-open journey with death care, here’s the book I wrote.


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