Caleb Wilde

Caleb Wilde

(220 comments, 875 posts)

I'm a sixth generation funeral director. I have a grad degree in Missional Theology and a Certification in Thanatology.

And I like to read and write.

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11 WTF Things that Have Happened at a Funeral

This list was compiled by Imgur user amsh101

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renovate. Renovate! RENOVATE! RENOVATE!!!!

I appreciate history, but I’m by no means a historian.  I have little when it comes to sentimentality when it comes to possessions.  But this.  THIS.  This 1947 Buick hearse (with 18 windows) needs to be renovated.

These photos are from Reddit user Ethan_Kahn.

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Death Facts: Part 80

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When a Daughter’s Drug Addiction Becomes the Topic of Her Obituary

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Molly Parks had been in and out of rehab.  She had wrestled with an escalating addiction to first alcohol, then painkillers and finally heroin.

As a funeral director who has seen numerous deaths caused by overdose I’ve observed a trend: it seems that the person is doing really well — for weeks, months and even years — and then the suppressed addiction comes back full rage and takes a life that had been doing so well.  Such seemed to be the case with Molly Parks.  Here father wrote, the day after her overdose:

My daughter Molly Parks made many good choices in her too short life and she made some bad choices. She tried to fight addiction in her own way and last night her fight came to an end in a bathroom of a restaurant with a needle of heroin.

Her whole family tried to help her win the battle but we couldn’t show her a way that could cure her addiction. We will always love her and miss her. If you have a friend or a relative who is fighting the fight against addiction please do everything you can to be supportive. Maybe for your loved one it’ll help. Sadly for ours it didn’t. I hope my daughter can now find the peace that she looked for [her] on earth.

Molly’s family tackled her obituary with this same fierce honesty.  They wrote:

ORCHARD BEACH- Molly Alice Parks, age 24, who most currently resided in Manchester, NH, passed away in Manchester on April 16, 2015 as the result of a heroin overdose.

She was born in York, Maine on March 13, 1991, a daughter of Tom and Patti (Michaud) Parks.

Molly graduated from Old Orchard Beach High School in 2009 and attended one year at SMCC until her addiction took over. Most recently, she was employed as a delivery driver for Portland Pie Co. in Manchester, NH. She enjoyed theater, fashion, reading – especially Harry Potter, and will always be remembered for fearless personality and her trademark red lipstick. Along Molly’s journey through life, she made a lot of bad decisions including experimenting with drugs. She fought her addiction to heroin for at least five years and had experienced a near fatal overdose before. Molly’s family truly loved her and tried to be as supportive as possible as she struggled with the heroin epidemic that has been so destructive to individuals and families in her age bracket.

She is survived by her parents- Tom Parks and his wife Pat Noble of Saco and Patti Michaud Parks of Berlin, NH; sister- Kasey Parks of OOB; step siblings- Dustin and Delayna Denicourt of Biddeford; maternal grandparents- Rita and Raymond Michaud of Berlin, NH; paternal grandmother- Ruth Parks of OOB; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, and a niece.

If you have any loved one’s who are fighting addiction, Molly’s family asks that you do everything possible to be supportive, and guide them to rehabilitation before it is too late.

Death Facts: Part 79

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